obsess much?

according to the oxford american dictionary, obsession is "a persistent idea that dominates a person's thoughts."

since thought observation is still miles away from exact, thoughts are probably best understood through actions.

let's examine a recent obsession charge leveled at me:

"you are obsessed" (this is the claim)

i am acing quizes, tests, and papers, with two b's amongst i've-lost-track a's.
kellyn and i are best buds and hang out all day during the week.
i have constant contact with long-time friends.
i chat via telephone or skype with other long-time friends not in the immediate vicinity.
i read for pleasure, finishing about a book per week on top of my school work.
i blog, i shower, i clean the flat, i make dinner.
i'm pushing forward with changing my program at school, which is turning out to be more complicated process than i planned.

so here's my question, if i'm "obsessed," then how come other thoughts are swirling in my head causing me to accomplish a variety of tasks?

more later... as usual.